No Picking - Skin, Face, Nose, Nail... Star this Commitment
Day 23 of 23

bcunnin8 commits to:
Not picking the skin on my face or body, biting/picking nails or picking nose.
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December 16, 2020, 12:47 AM
I just decided to go ahead with this even though it makes Nicole super uncomfortable. I'm not responsible for her emotions that created that discomfort. If she doesn't want to participate then that's fine. But I'm not going to deny myself something that is logical and well-thought out and change it because she can't move past her initial emotionally-driven response. There was really no logical counter-argument to why I should not put money on it other than it made her feel uncomfortable. The suggestion was made to make some other type of wager like eliminating reading at the end of the night. This was a good suggestion but there are many reasons that this would not work as well as my credit card getting automatically charged and me suffering a loss. I even suggested that the fact that she would tremendously upset with me if I lost $10 to Ryan is DOUBLE (or even more) motivation to stick to my contract. BUT here's the other thing. I'm now QUADRUPLE motivated because, 1) I don't want to lose $10 2) I don't want Nicole upset that I lost $10 3) I don't want her angry that I went behind her back and did this anyway 4) I want her trust that I can do anything that I put my mind to and that this strategy worked despite her best efforts to squash it.
December 15, 2020, 12:49 AM
Well this started off lousy. It's been a lousy day overall. Nicole got did that thing where she didn't agree with something (this contract and paying if I violated it), and then said it in a way that produced a defensiveness response. Then she wondered why I got defensive.

So there were two mistakes there. One, the original thing was me saying that I was just going to do the thing without asking her. Two, she said "can't you find something other than money".

So it started off with me saying something that created defensiveness.
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