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No snooping in Sam's stuff
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Snooping through his history, messages, photos and belongings as reasons to get angry and jealous
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My Commitment Journal
 kaizenempress
September 20, 2020, 10:15 PM
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| Learning To Trust Again: You’ve Got To ‘Put Out’ Some Trust & Then Adjust Accordingly | |
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kaizenempress
September 20, 2020, 10:14 PM
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projecting – that’s when you’re up to something, feeling bad about it on some level and then looking to dispel that feeling by finding a similar fault in them The first thing that you have to admit if you’re tempted to snoop or already have, is that you have trust issues and a relationship without trust is like washing your front but not your back; mucky. Snooping is temporary protection against doubts. The next time we experience the feelings and thoughts, if we haven’t addressed the root cause and learned how to self-soothe and also communicate with our partner, we will snoop again. And lather, rinse, repeat. You can’t keep crossing their line in order to make you feel better. |
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kaizenempress
September 20, 2020, 10:12 PM
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| Jealousy, snooping, paranoia - I have seen it in my mother for *extremely* good and traumatic reasons , but since the onset of romance in my life there has always been infidelity- usually with me - I've dumped more than been dumped, easily become infatuated, easily flirt, hurt and lead people on. I feel so intensely jealous and paranoid because I am *projecting*. | |
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kaizenempress
September 20, 2020, 10:11 PM
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