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90 days DIY Immersion: from interme...
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Taking 90 days DIY Immersion: from intermediate to Advanced in Game. will primarily use Todd's structured game method. Understand this is a change from the natural game I have used till now, therefore expecting the short term result might suffer. The goal is in the long run getting more success with 9's and 10's
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 connorchen7
December 21, 2019, 5:27 PM
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Debrief from last night: Dec 20th Saurday Went to purple and Chantelle, about 15 approaches total: • A couple of hard blown out: due to calibration error: o In one set, the girl already looked at me and said hi, I still used line”I want to grace you with my presense”, so a bit too cocky o The other set, I approach from behind without seeing her face, from experience, this kind of situations does not turn well • a couple of soft blown out, mostly because the girl was on moving set, can not really keep up with them, guess the key is to walk with them, meanwhile keep running mouth, till they slow down and stop, then switch to standard game set o one opener to test tonight: “5 seconds.. 5 seconds.. (hi 5 or stop girl walking pass by), you have this most interesting/adorable expression ever” I like this one it has false time constraints, its emotional relevant and can improvise after the line mixing with cold reading, for example: part of you feel so so polite but the other part, I’m not so sure… • 3 longer sets (5 to 10 mins) o it seems I’m able to run more longer sets now o what I do still mostly cold reading for attraction only, need to add premise/flirting and move the set o cold reading is teasing her, its still about her, need to made it about us, testing the one below (more about me than her): you are very bubbly and very happy, I love it…. Maybe its my influence, you saw you and you got really really happy… Its ok I’m flattered, I’m a little concerned, a little too much too fast, you know, because I’m a shy boy o after 5 mins in set, try to move her o I’m tempted to have a drink with you, but I don’t want you to interpret it as I need to drink more to make you more attractive. o I have a proposition for you, I like to take you go the bar and get a drink, but you have to promise me that the next story you tell me won’t be boring, I promise to ask interesting questions so no pressure o …, if we hate each other, let’s just limit it up to 5 mins, fair enough? What to do tonight • open with more calibration and test the new line follow up with improvisation o : “5 seconds.. 5 seconds.. (hi 5 or stop girl walking pass by), you have this most interesting/adorable expression ever” • more flirting: o you are very bubbly and very happy, I love it…. Maybe its my influence, you saw you and you got really really happy… Its ok I’m flattered, I’m a little concerned, a little too much too fast, you know, because I’m a shy boy • Sexualization o I have to ask you something and it’s really important, do you sleep on left or right side of the bed? follow up with disqualify like that’s not gonna work out between us o I really want you to be inside of me • move her around physically |
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connorchen7
December 16, 2019, 2:35 AM
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Below is what I was thinking about at Gym the other day, wrote it down for future reference Different levels of conversations (apply to both girls and guys) To start any conversation, you just need to find one Boring object and start from there level 1: friendly conversation about facts/boring stuff like: chair, weather, food, notebook, etc - most people stuck in this level Level 2: one step further is to relate the fact to your own feelings/emotions. Use note book as example: - “you know why I like the note book? let me tell you something, when I was a kid, the other kid hurt me really bad…. later he gave me this notebook and wrote the 1st page on how he regret and appreciate our friendship… “ - this makes the conversation more interesting Level 3: the next step is relate the object to him/her, for example - “that’s really nice read jacket, guess what, I feel you have this warm, open minded and adventurous personality, I bet you are very passionate about many things in life and when you fall in love with someone you are always 100% in…” Level4: one more step further is to relate the fact to both us, for example - continuing with level 3 conversation - “… you know red is also my favorite colo, I use to have this red jacket I love so much, receive so much compliments and when it was torn, I was heartbroken. I spent the next 6 months trying to look to buy a new one but never found the same” - this would actually build some connecting between you and her/him, - however, it does feels like you are chasing which is a drawback - level 4 is the highest level in intermediate, most intermediate guys get stuck here Advanced levels Level 5: first level in advanced game, you can say something like: - “red jacket, seriously (combining with a judging look on your face)? I hate red, we will never get alone” - this is a push/neg, which triggers negative emotions - negative ambitions in her/him sometimes is even better than positive ones because it makes you look less chasing/needy with higher value which makes them to chase your validate Level 6: continue level 5 conversation, - “…..you know what? I thought I didn’t like you at first because I hate red color, now that I just saw you sacrifice your time to help some stranger, actually you are not too bad.. I kind of like you now” - basically this is the push pull in form of the plot line (instead of one simple line: like part of me trust you and part of me want to run away) - the beauty of level 6 is: Neg from level 5 makes her want to chase your validation, the line above makes her believe that she wins you over, - this is very important, because in order for her to have sex wit you, she needs to believe its is win for her, thats where the push pull comes in.. - Btw, this is also a popular Hollywood formula for girls to fall in love. After above 6 levels, you should be able to build a pretty good connection with her/him Level 7: (only apply to girls) sexualize the conversation, for example - “I have an important question: do you sleep on the left or right side of bed?” - “I really want you to be inside of me (reverse psychology” - “You have absolutely amazing lips, it really turns me on, BUT, I can’t, you are too young for me (push pull)” Level 8: deep connection - basically just share a deep secret with her/him which you never tell other people, - this forms a really really deep connection - recoupment only if you want to make her your girlfriend |
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