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Healthy House Dynamics
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Day 7 of 134
marayawahl commits to:
I will communicate my needs calmly, address issues before resentment builds, and step away when overwhelmed instead of reacting impulsively. I will create productive plans and boundaries for shared spaces. I will not yell, stomp around, threaten to move out, or frequently vent about the house to others, aside from occasionally talking things through with my mom.
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My Commitment Journal
 marayawahl
May 17, 2026, 9:20 PM
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| I have vented about the issue because it’s so heavily weighing on me, but I’m starting to come up with plans and say things. Rory will be missed but that clears the issue of poop and pee on the main floor. I deep cleaned the litter boxes, mopped the floor in the office, and told Bayleigh I started washing her clothes and she said she’ll get to more of it tonight. I need her to make some moves for herself now because the whole dynamic is affecting me. I don’t want to talk/interact with the roommates as much right now. I don’t think leia has been home because of the situation. I haven’t wanted to be home and have been out spending money instead or binge eating. I think she’ll have herself moved into Caitlin’s soon because she wants to be with her dog. I’m going to give it til the two month mark, bc she hasn’t found the job she’s looking for. I respect that it takes a lot of effort especially to find a remote job, but it’s going to be more important when she has her dog anyways. I know she might be uncomfortable living with kids but I can’t have someone sleeping in my room like this. I didn’t realize how much it would wear on my until recently. Something needs to change, and I do need to keep seeking out better coping mechanisms so I’m not venting to people about things. I’m ready to get back into fitness, taking care of my space, my finances, etc. | |
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marayawahl
May 17, 2026, 1:50 AM
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| Today I talked to Dena about the situation but mainly because I was crying in her car over the fact that I smelled like cat and that the house was reeking of piss. I asked Bayleigh to get to the bags, which she didn’t because Rory was put down. So when I got home I immediately deep cleaned the litter boxes and started washing her stuff. Because if I’m going to complain, I need to do something about it | |
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marayawahl
May 15, 2026, 1:56 AM
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| Today I had a meltdown about potentially bringing another pet into the home, but I made sure to communicate it directly and I did go to my mom to vent. However, she reacts too strongly and dramatically to things so I dont think I want to go to her anymore. | |
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marayawahl
May 13, 2026, 9:47 PM
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| Today I mentioned things in the house that weren’t completed in a neutral tone to the group chat. I didn’t complain or make myself upset, I didn’t storm around. I wanted to get the kitchen items put away and instead of giving myself a reason to get upset, I put it away myself. When I have time this is a good solution. | |
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